drama queen
An overly dramatic person.
Mary blows everything out of proportion! She's such a drama queen!
Drama Queen
Someone who turns something unimportant into a major deal. Someone who blows things way out of proportion when ever the chance is given.
"Oh my god! You copied that without giving the other person credit! That is just mean. You're horrible, don't talk to me. Im gonna go tell everyone what a cruel person you are just so they will pay attention to me and think im cool."
drama queen
Someone who angsts about the littlest things, the most unlikely possibilities, and how spasses out about the most ridiculously unimportant matters.
My fucking girlfriend.
drama queen
An annoying bitch who always feels like every insignificant problem in her day is a disaster of Hurricane Katrina proportions. Anyone who so much as gives her the time of day is in for an endless session of hearing why her boyfriend is such an asshole or how she's fat because she can't wear size 0 jeans along with an allday crying marathon.
If you value your sanity avoid these psychic vampires like the clap or you'll never have a minute's peace.
My ex girlfriend is such a drama queen.
Drama Queen
People (mostly girls - but boys play their part) who like to blow everything totally out of proption because they either :
a) Want to seek attention
b) Have some emotional dynsfunction and it's their duty to make life harder for everyone around them
c) Just simple can't get ove it.
These people need to realise that nobody cares about their fucking episodes or what they have to say --- life is hard enough without all the added bullshit drama on top.
Typical Drama Queen Text :
Jean "Hey Mary, what you up to ?"
Mary "Why are you talking to me, I know that you hate and and that you were talking about me ... HOW COULD YOU ?! KEEP AWAY FROM ME!!!"
Jean "Wtf ?!"
drama queen
A person.. especially a girl.. who likes to stir up stuff between other people just to be the center of attention
Vonder Haars
drama queen
A girl who boo hoo's and ba ha's about all the shit in her life that's going on claiming "Too much drama" but in reality brings it all on herself.
Deana is such a fucking drama queen.
His profile reads "Seeking Drama Free Woman", we say "skip"
Scrolling through online dating profiles, my friends and I noted a large amount of men stating in their profile headline, 'seeking drama free relationship' or 'drama free woman'. When we see this on a man's profile, we immediately skip. What we hear is 'I don't want to work to achieve a relationship', 'I don't want to try to understand' and 'I make women lose their minds with my unwillingness to communicate'. So, placing 'No drama, please' in your dating profile has become the new 'red flag' in dating. We see it as a possible sign this man is unwilling to accept fault or resolve conflict by honesty and working on a relationship. So, you don't feel this is fair? Is it any less fair than labeling every woman who speaks her mind and demands respect and honesty as a 'drama queen'?
So, how has 'Seeking Drama Free Woman' become the new 'Red Flag'? When we see this in your profile, we take into consideration it may be for the following reasons: (Don't shoot the messenger, this is for your consideration)
1) You are a non communicator. The woman makes an attempt to discuss her feelings, you shut down completely unwilling to discuss or acknowledge the problem. You accuse her of being overly sensitive. She is very frustrated you will not validate her feelings. She gets louder to be heard. Her verbal frustration is labeled as 'drama'. Women need to be heard when something feels wrong. She needs to know you are willing to compromise to prevent these bad feelings from recurring. If you will make no attempt to listen and make remarks such as, 'you're over-reacting' , 'you're just being crazy', 'this is immature', the result will be an emotional reaction. You label this incorrectly as drama.
2) You are disrespectful. (particularly regarding members of the opposite sex in that you blatantly flirt and toss her to the side when someone more attractive shows up). Maybe you make overly sexist remarks that belittle women. You spend too much time trying to make her jealous of the attention you give other women than you do giving her attention. You will aggravate the green monster and label this incorrectly as drama.
3) You are a man of mixed messages: A man who says one thing and his actions reveal another. Mixed messages lead to conflict and confusion. I have witnessed men tell woman all the sweet things, introduce them to family & friends, then tell everyone you are 'just friends'. Guys, this leads to heightened conflict which many now refer to as drama. Save yourself the drama and be honest in all your dealings.
4) You play games: We all know the 'pleasant withdrawal' games. You don't return text for days or return phone calls and when her emotional buttons get pressed, you claim 'I was busy' or 'I don't keep my phone up my *&/' (yes, I have heard this one). The latest form of ''withdrawal' games include 'Facebook absence'. We see men shower other women with attention; 'liking' their statuses, being flirtatious, 'liking' pics & then intentionally ignoring their 'love interest' (even when they post directly on their wall). We are not this naive; it angers us that you are trying to manipulate our emotions. It may achieve your goal to pull her in for the moment, but eventually, when we try to 'call you' on it, you call it 'drama'.
5) You simply defines normal conflict resolution as drama. If the slightest conflict is considered drama, you probably do not want a true, meaningful relationship which requires work. In a relationship, the elimination of conflict grows as you learn more about each other. Typically, it follows a pattern, a natural flow. As you date someone, a bad feeling may arise. If it doesn't feel right to you, it should be addressed honestly. Telling someone how it made you feel without attacking them should not be labeled as drama.
6) You are simply a drama creator without realizing it. If you refer to every woman you date as 'crazy' or a 'drama-queen', we assume you are pushing her buttons for any of the above reasons. If every woman you dated is a 'drama-queen', you may be a jerk.
Do Men REALLY Hate Drama?
What does it cost you to just accept the conventional wisdom that:“Men don’t like drama.”
Well, I can suggest this: it costs you one or all of these two things:
1) The ability to express your authentic feelings to a man because you’re afraid he will run, thinking you are a “drama queen”. Pretending everything is ok rarely makes everything ok, does it?
2) It costs you a very important part of yourself: the drama queen part of you that actually makes things/problems/events BIGGER than they really are.
With number 2? It’s in the nature of the feminine energy to make things BIGGER. You didn’t need me to tell you that.
Otherwise, where did the words “drama queen” come from?
Do you know who ACTUALLY hates drama from women? Or uses the term “drama queen” as a way of putting a woman down?
Women.
And that’s two types of women:
The first type: the woman who thinks she needs to be strong, tough, STRAIGHT, right, ‘head screwed on’, ‘never needy’ and totally awesomely LIKED by all men. But, usually, in a relationship with none of them (alarm bells?).
The second type: The women who HATES other women for being drama queens, when really, they just feel jealous or threatened inside.
Why?
Well, because they perceive that drama queens steal attention from them. Or perhaps that drama queens are getting attention: something they don’t feel they have. The drama queens seem to get all the attention. Doesn’t mean it’s a good type of attention, but it’s still attention.
Might I suggest, it’s WOMEN who perpetuate the idea that men don’t like drama. And we’re good at it, aren’t we?
After all, if we keep telling all our friends not to be drama queens, then we can reserve some of the attention for ourselves. And, TALKING and bitching about another person who is a drama queen in effect, is still bringing attention to ourselves, right? It’s just from a different person.
There’s a purpose to being a drama queen:
There’s a purpose for why the feminine energy actually makes things bigger: it’s because people pay attention when you dramatise things. The Anthropologist Helen Fisher has said in her book ‘Why We Love’, that tears actually serve a purpose. It’s very hard to fake crying, according to Helen Fisher, and it serves a purpose because historically, when women are upset, and crying, people would come to their aid, and the tribe would not like that one of their women is not happy (one unhappy woman can affect dozens of others in a group, wouldn’t you agree?) and they would rally together with that woman and get revenge.On the other hand: when there were no laws, the MALE way of dealing with pain in a relationship (especially when he’s been cuckolded) is to kill. Women have not been known to use that strategy as much. Women use tears, bitching, dramatising.
And, it works.
So do some men hate drama queens?
Some men don’t like drama queens, yes. But only if they don’t understand it. Only if they don’t get that the feminine energy makes things bigger, and more serious than they are. Those men can be frustrating to deal with because they don’t want to understand your feelings, they just want to get the conversations over with ASAP.So if you are wondering how a man could fall for a drama queen at all, and how “drama” can actually serve your relationship.
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